tough times don't last....

Severe, typically prolonged feelings of dejection : that is what is depression according to the google dictionary.Well frankly speaking one can't say much until one has actually had the experience of feeling dejected and totally worthless, that too at the same time....i know most of us at one point of time or the other may've faced certain tough times, real hard to encounter and even to think about them gives one jitters....But nevertheless one has to face certain odds sometimes.They may happen very early in one's life or maybe after a while, but they surely do happen.When one is going through such a difficult phase of one's life, one has to put up a brave face as all may say.But nobody can understand the plight of the person until you're in his/her shoes ( this is what the person feels when someone gives them any type of advice ) Surely one can't easily forget anything that happened in just a few seconds, the person may need more time. Sometimes this time limit extends far beyond thought .The person is not able to think otherwise, the thoughts remain confined to the same event or person. Still, life goes on and one has to keep moving along. If one does not "Go with the Flow" then, they remain still at a point and others move far beyond....If it had not been for some really good friends who genuinely care, life would definately take a stand still......

So what are u waiting for...go rush thank all the RADIATORS in your life

You truly are blessed to have them!!!!!!!! Right

Our purpose in life

When all of us were babies, how happy we were.Right!!!! But now tension, stress , boredom has set in. It just feels all the more tiresome when you feel there is no purpose in your life. You aren't actually doing anything for yourself. Just living life for the sake of living it......As small infants we had nothing, absolutely nothing to worry about. Our elders would take care of everything that we needed or not actually needed also. They were there for us everytime, everywhere...Now that we have ourselves taken the charge of life, it doesn't seem to be reciprocating as we would like it to be. Maybe its destined to behave in such a way or maybe somewhere down the line our efforts are just not enough for what we want out of life..Whatever the case maybe, we surely need to find out as-soon-as-possible. 'coz life is short and we are sent on this earth to make the most of it.....Basically our real purpose in life is to remain cheerful, whatever the situation maybe. Its true that most of the times we tend to forget this real purpose in life. Don't  worry even those who are trying to remind you of this basic purpose, may tend to forget it themselves at some point or the other..But nevertheless, keep going and just laugh out your worries.....

Also next time you feel low just think about  your purpose in life and you are sure to find a way out.....

stressed out.......don't worry!!!!!!

How many of us know "Laughter is the best medicine" ??????? i guess all. But how many actually believe in it or rather after believing follow it from all their heart ?????? any answers....i guess people despite knowing the fact may not follow it. The simple reason being that when you really are pissed off , you don't want to hear or know any of the so-called-saintly-knowledge that anyone wants to bestow on you ........Right !!!!! I know it,everyone knows it...'coz that's the way we feel when we have slogged our guts out but yet no one is there to appreciate us,or atleast bother to give some inputs....even just for the heck of it.......how can everyone or rather the so-called-people-of-importance in our lives become so much oblivious to the fact that we still exist...we're still owning some portion of this great grand universe....Nevertheless never mind....no need to do anything, i mean sure there is everyone to give you every piece of advice in the world, but in reality you must just sit back and relax...ya you heard it right....just do that you always wanna do......read coooooool books, listen to some great music. and most of all "Go with the Flow"......be around the right people who really care, keep drains away  and try spending more time with radiators (if i may say so according to author Preeti Shenoy) plus just remember THIS TOO SHALL PASS.......

O Dear friend!!!!!!

Friend o friend , what is it that i can't say about you....all has been said long ago, what's new that i can contribute as your description...But nonetheless i really would like to tell you something.

You are the most lovable creature on earth that i have met.Without u life would have been boring, or can i say non-existant. Dear friend you came to my life like a cool breeze, that hits your face softly n leaves its fragrance even after it has gone.Without you i mean life would be a mess, surely not possible.For the care n guidance you bestowed seems unmatchable......Kudos to our friendship n everybody else's........Yeah...now you maybe thinking why am i saying all these things today ???? today is not friendship's day as far as anybody can remember, so why has this girl gone crazy in saying these things today???? right!!!! absolutely correct .Today isn't friendship's day, but i guess one doesn't need any day or time to express one's feeling about anybody, yes anybody whom u care about...So just go out  n express yourself as much as possible.....for life is ever-so-changing...it never let's u stay at one place or with any single person........now, don't wait go..go...go.............

by the way .....  HAPPYYYYYYY BIRTHDAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

Follow your Bliss....at least once

Perfect happiness, great joy or to go into a state of ecstasy is all what is meant by the term "Bliss". All of us sometime or someday experience the experience of a lifetime. It may be a small gesture, a little appreciation of the project, that we completed by slogging our guts out or the coming true of what we wanted for such a long time.....

It can be anything, just any thing that we may encounter and which makes us feel fortunate for the gift of life given by the Almighty. Each one's experience may be different from the other. What you may feel at the present moment might make you dull and exhausted, yet the same weariness might not be the case with the other one, who may feel energetic even after doing a lot....

We must all find out and follow our purpose in life. Everyone is sure to find at least one ( if not more ) time when they may feel happy-n-cheerful from the core....All of us will have to find out for ourselves what is it that makes us overjoyed, what is it that doing once we may want to do once again....Is it gifting a needful to the needy that gives us delight ? or Is it helping a child with their school project that makes us feel better. Whatever it may be, once accomplished the feeling of bliss is sure to reign in for a lifetime.....

SO WHAT ARE U WAITING.........GO FOLLOW YOUR BLISS........NOW!!!!!!!!!

Sadness prevails.......worry NOT!!!!!!!

Everyone in their lives sometime or the other  face an all time low. It maybe on account of any reason.Whether u r not getting your dream job, or your gf/bf has ditched u, or u maybe facing a haughty boss in ur present job n wish to quit the job a.s.a.p.or a 100000000001 reasons.....i can keep on mumbling and the list may never end......Whatever the reason maybe , just don't loose that hope of yours.......STOP THINKING AND START SMILING!!!!!!!!!!!  I may sound a little cliched, but nevertheless sometimes tried and tested formulas really work...i'm telling you from my own experiences , so u r definately not alone........Do whatever u like to do..........Do what you've always wanted to do............no matter how devastatingly bad the situation may be........how low and worn out u maybe feeling..........just get onto that local bus and roam around..............just get into ur car and look around (plz use a driver for driving the car,otherwise with ur eyes off the road , u may face worse times ahead...)..........feel the beauty that nature has bestowed on you (n for that moment just feel that this is for you alone.........u have to give sometime to yourself.....agree na??????????? ) smile when u feel like it , smile also when u don't feel like it...........try to do something for someone each very day ( trust me u'll feel a lot more better )....make someone happy n see that BIG SMILE on ur face too.........so what r u waiting for SMILE..........it costs nothing.

petals

A very big hiiiiiiiiiiiiii to all. This is my very first post. I'd like to share an inspiring quote by Rumi .Read on......